Romans 10:16-20      Rejection Doesn't End It

Rev. David Holwick   V

First Baptist Church

Ledgewood, New Jersey

July 14, 2013

Romans 10:16-20


REJECTION DOESN'T END IT



  I. Not everyone wants it.

      A. Probably not the best way to propose.


            It was a YouTube sensation last year.

            In the middle of a mall food court, a young man in a suit

               gets on his knees before his girlfriend.

            This food court is packed and everyone turns to stare at

               them.

            A friend videotaped him as the young man said,


            "We met here one year ago, right in front of this Cinnabon.

                And when we did, I was dizzy in your presence.

             Caroline, I love everything about you.

                I love the way you, you get a cupcake.

             And when you have the cupcake you cut it in half and the

                frosting, and you make a little tiny, a little cupcake

                   thing.

             I love the way you curl up next to me on the couch and purr

                 like a little kitten...."


            He then stands up, holding her hands, while a guy with a

               guitar comes alongside playing "Sweet Caroline."

            Everyone in the food court starts singing along.


            The young guy then gets back on his knee and opens a ring

               box.

            People are taking out their cellphones and taping him.

            He says, "Make me the happiest man in the world, and please

               will you marry me?"


            His girlfriend stands there with her hands over her face,

               says, "Oh my God" and runs away while everyone stares.

            The guy stands there stupidly, then he escapes, too.

               Someone in the background says, "That is brutal."

            Another person says, "The Cinnabon lady said she'd marry him."

                                                                    #64189


      B. Rejection is hard.

          1) When you propose marriage to someone, you take a risk.

          2) And when you share your faith in Jesus, you take a risk.

              a) When they reject the gospel, they are sort of rejecting

                    you as well.

              b) Why would they not want something as great as salvation?


II. Not everyone wants the good news.

      A. This was especially perplexing to the early Christians.

          1) Most were Jewish, and they knew Jesus fulfilled so many

                prophecies - Jesus was obviously part of God's plan.

          2) But most Jews rejected it.

              a) Paul himself was once in this category, and persecuted

                    Christians.


      B. Where did the process fail?

          1) Paul says it is not because they haven't heard.        10:18

              a) Not all had, but the gospel was out there.

              b) Major Jewish centers had been exposed to it.

          2) Their rejection was part of God's plan.

              a) All the way back in Isaiah's day, it was predicted

                    that few would accept the message.              10:16

                  1> What should grab us is that this prediction occurs

                        in Isaiah 53, the greatest prophecy about Jesus.

                  2> It mentions his rejection, death, burial and

                        resurrection.

              b) God also has a plan to reach the Jews with salvation.

                  1> The following chapters spell it out, but in a

                        nutshell, he is going to make them jealous. 10:19

                  2> After lots of foreigners get salvation, they will

                        want it to.

                  3> The irony is that those who don't have a clue about

                        God, people who aren't even seeking him, will

                           get it first.                            10:20


III. Who believes today?

      A. Your perspective depends on your human network.

          1) If you are a church-goer, you probably think most of your

                friends believe in Jesus and God.

              a) They may not be a strong in the faith as you, but they

                    pretty much agree with you.

              b) Christians like hanging around other Christians.

          2) Out in secular society, religion is considered quaint.

              a) Grandmothers believe in it, but not normal people.

              b) Modern educated people don't need the crutch of

                    religion to find meaning in life, they think.


      B. Surveys show a wide gap.

          1) There is broad general faith among Americans - 92% believe

                in some type of God.

          2) If you ask Americans if they have a personal commitment

                to Jesus, 43% say yes.

          3) If you ask them if they have accepted Jesus as their savior,

                and believe the Bible is accurate in all it teaches,

                   and salvation only comes by God's grace and not human

                      effort, the number plunges to just 7%.

              a) That is still a large number of people, but it means

                    that 5 out of 6 who consider themselves "born again"

                       don't even see things our way.

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              b) We have a lot of work to do.


      C. The trends are important.

          1) The fastest growing group in America is the non-religious.

          2) The number who identify as atheist has grown seven-fold

                 in forty years.

          3) Christians are not holding their own.

              a) We have an especially hard time reaching adults.

              b) After the age of 19, the probability of someone

                    accepting Christ as their savior is just 6%.   #64145


IV. Why do people reject the gospel today?

      A. They are not impressed by the proclaimers.

          1) A survey of young atheists in colleges who had grown up in

                churches found they were turned off by uncommitted and

                   lax Christians.

          2) They especially didn't respect Christians who gave

                superficial answers to life's difficult questions. #64143


      B. They reject the moral demands of the gospel.

          1) The Bible upholds a strict moral code, especially when it

                comes to sexuality.

          2) Many modern people don't want these restrictions and think

                they are unnecessary.

          3) They erase the guilt by erasing the boundaries.


      C. They believe other belief systems make more sense.

          1) Some prefer Eastern religions and practices like meditation

                because they have an inward focus and a self-help

                   emphasis.

          2) Science appeals to many because it answers so many

                questions and puts an emphasis on human ability to

                   reason and create.


      D. They have a satisfied view of themselves.

          1) They don't feel they are lost, so they don't see a need

                to be saved.

          2) If you measure yourself against the world, you may come out

                okay.

          3) Most people would rather not measure themselves against

                God's standard.


  V. God works in mysterious ways.

      A. Salvation is always possible.

          1) It may be rare, but even old fogies can get saved.


                Greg Boyd grew up Catholic, became an atheist, then

                   got saved.

                He earned a Ph.D. at Princeton Theological Seminary

                   and became the pastor of a large church.


                One thing that burdened him is that his father did not

                   believe in God.

                He was getting up there in years and Greg decided to

                   do something about it.

                He challenged his father to write him letters that

                   laid out his biggest objections to faith.

                Greg answered those questions as best he could.


                They covered some big areas, like how can you know the

                   Bible is true, and how do you explain all the

                      suffering in the world.

                It wasn't just hypothetical stuff - his father's wife,

                   Greg's mom, had died when the kids were very small.

                Edward had strong reasons not to believe in God.


                After many letters passed back and forth, a miracle

                   happened - Edward accepted Jesus as his savior.

                He spent the last ten years of his life as a dedicated

                   Christian.

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          2) Some people have been saved on their deathbed.


             Two years ago, Christopher Hitchens, the world's most famous

                atheist, died of cancer.

             Hitchens expected a blackness, a going out of consciousness

                forever.

             Many Christians remarked that Christopher Hitchens was

                going to be surprised when he opened his eyes in hell.

             But they might be wrong.


             The Christian impulse here is exactly right.

             After all, Jesus and his apostles assured us that there is

                no salvation apart from union with Christ.

             And Hitchens not only rejected the Gospel, he ridiculed it.

             The Bible is clear: There is a narrow window in which we

                must be saved, the time of this present life.

             After this there is only judgment.


             But Baptist leader Russell Moore is not sure Christopher

                Hitchens is in hell right now.

             It's not because he believes there's a "second chance" after

                death for salvation (he doesn't).

             It's not because he doesn't believe in hell or in God's

                judgment (he does).

             It's because of a sermon he heard years ago that haunts him

                to this day, reminding him of the sometimes surprising

                   persistence of the Gospel.


             Fifteen or so years ago, Moore heard an old Welsh pastor

                preach on Jesus' encounter with the thieves on the cross.

             The preacher paused to speculate about whether the penitent

                thief might have had any God-fearing friends or family.

             If so, he said, they probably would never have known about

                the criminal's final act, his appeal to Jesus, "Remember

                   me when you come into your kingdom" (Luke 23:42).

             They never would have heard Jesus pronounce, "Today you

                 will be with me in Paradise" (Luke 23:43).


             These believing family members and friends would have

                assumed, all their lives, that this robber was in hell.

             They would have been shocked to meet this man in the

                Kingdom of God.


             Now, deathbed conversions are very rare.

             Typically, a conscience is so seared by then, so given over

                to the darkening of the mind, that the Gospel rarely is

                   heard.

             We shouldn't count on last-second repentance.


             But, however rarely, it does happen, and who knows?

             Perhaps you have relatives who, in the last seconds of life,

                breathed out a silent prayer of repentance and faith.

             You might be as surprised as the thief's family and friends.


             I don't know about Christopher Hitchens, about what happened

                in his last moments.

             But I do know that, if he had embraced it, the Gospel would

                be enough for him.

             I know that because it's enough for me, and I'm as deserving

                of hell as he is.


             As long as there is breath, it is not yet too late.

             The Gospel offers forgiveness and mercy right to the edge

                of death's door.

                                                                   #63465


      B. People may reject Jesus, but we should never give up on them.

          1) Keep praying for them.

          2) Keep witnessing to them.

          3) Keep loving them, while always realizing life is short.



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SOURCES FOR ILLUSTRATIONS USED IN THIS SERMON:


#35503  The Percentage of Evangelicals in America, Barna Group, 2008;

           <http://www.barna.org/flexpage.aspx?page=barnaupdatenarrow&barnaupdateid=321>


#63465  Could a Militant Atheist End Up In Heaven? Russell D. Moore,

           Baptist Press, http://www.baptistpress.org, December 16, 2011.


#64143  Learning From Young Atheists: What Turned Them Off To Christianity,

           Eric Metaxas, Baptist Press, http://www.baptistpress.org,

           July 2, 2013.


#64188  Even Old Fogies Can Get Saved, Rev. David Holwick, adapted from

           the book "Letters from a Skeptic: A Son Wrestles with His

           Father's Questions about Christianity," by Dr. Gregory A. Boyd

           and Edward K. Boyd (2008).


#64189  Taking A Risk Because of Love, Rev. David Holwick, adapted from

           "Food Court Proposal Gone Bad" by LeftRightSevenProd,

           <http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnyKkA05nYw>


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