Matthew 10_11-20      Dumpers and Dumpees

Rev. David Holwick   ZB                                  Matthew 10 series

First Baptist Church

Ledgewood, New Jersey

September 10, 2006

Matthew 10:11-20


DUMPERS AND DUMPEES



  I. Houseguests from Hell.


       A young woman with the internet nickname "Goodies" shared a

          personal experience on her internet blog.

       She and her husband had received a call from one of his old

          buddies.

       The man had lost his $140,000-a-year job at Sun Microsystems.

       Then he had spent the last year blazing through his overly-

          generous severance pay and was now living out of his car.

       He asked them, "Hey, dudes, can I hang out at your house for a

          while, just for a few weeks until I get back on my feet?"


       Somehow she honestly believed it really would only be a few

          weeks.

       On Day 21, "Goodies" faced her husband and said, "Well?  Is

          he leaving yet?"

       It seemed that every time she wanted to go to the bathroom,

          Harry Homeless was in there and she had to wait -- to use her

             own bathroom, in her own house.


       He would tease them all the time by saying, "I had an interview

          today and it went really well, and I have three more tomorrow

             so things are looking good."

       So she got in the habit of checking his car's odometer.

          Usually it had never budged.

       He lost even more credibility when she noticed he was still

          wearing the same shorts and T-shirt he had on when she left

             in the morning, and the TV was hot.

       He was never really looking for a job.


       Harry Homeless was with them for three agonizing months and he'd

          gotten very comfortable what with free cable, internet,

             groceries and the whole house to himself for 12 hours a day.

       He piled his dirty dishes in the sink for Goodies to clean and

          dumped computer parts all over her living room.

       Most days she returned from work to find him passed out on her

          couch.


       It would be wonderful if it could be said Harry found a job and

          finally left but it was more dramatic than that.

       One night Goodies marched into her husband's office at 11 o'clock

          at night and said, "I want a divorce!"

       Harry was out within 30 minutes.


       She closed her blog by asking, "Have you ever had a houseguest

          from hell?"

       She got 34 detailed responses.

                                                                   #33216


          1) Nobody likes a moocher - but most of us have been one at

                one time or another.

          2) In our passage today, we find that Jesus orders us to be

                moochers.

          3) We have an obligation to impose ourselves on others -

                and we may have to pay a steep price for it.


II. We dump ourselves on the world.

      A. The first mission strategy.

          1) Jesus told the disciples to invite themselves in.      10:11

              a) Disciples were to take the first opportunity, not the

                    most comfortable.

              b) "Worthy" has to do more with openness than morality.

          2) It was a lesson in dependence.

              a) They had no promise of success.

                  1> They might get kicked out.

                  2> But sometimes they got lucky.

                      A> Their host might be open to the gospel.

              b) Witnessing can be an imposition on people.

                  1> (Even if we are not sleeping over.)

                  2> Most people are comfortable with their beliefs and

                        character and don't want to hear a call to

                           change their ways for God.

                  3> Does this mean we have to be obnoxious?


               Thirty-two years ago, a family in England was enjoying

                  their Christmas dinner.

               There was a knock on the door - two Jehovah's Witnesses.

               The family was so upset they put a sign in their front

                  yard - "Our dogs are fed on Jehovah's Witnesses."

               In the 32 years since, no one complained about the sign,

                  not even Jehovah's Witnesses.


               The sign worked, too: the Witnesses stopped calling on

                  the house.


               But then the police called.

               The bobbies declared the sign "distressing, offensive

                  and inappropriate," and insisted she take it down.

               Once the officers left, however, she put it back up.

                                                                   #33219


              c) Witnessing needs to be appropriate and sensitive.


                 As 1 Peter 3:15-16 says,


                 "In your hearts set apart Christ as Lord.

                  Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone

                     who asks you to give the reason for the

                        hope that you have.


                 "But do this with gentleness and respect,

                     keeping a clear conscience,

                  so that those who speak maliciously against your

                     good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their

                        slander."


      B. Disciples had only two things to offer.

          1) The gospel.

          2) Their blessing.

              a) It was a simple blessing: "Peace be on this house." (Lk)

              b) Blessing could have three results, as I see it.

                  1> The family accepts the gospel and so experiences

                        the true peace of God.

                  2> The house is indifferent to the gospel and the

                        blessing is nullified.

                      A> (Presumably, the disciples are kicked out, too)

                  3> The family is hostile to the gospel.

                      A> They lose the blessing.

                      B> They gain God's wrath.


      C. The harshest rejection.

          1) Dust shaken off feet.                                 10:14

              a) Jews did this when leaving a pagan territory.

              b) Those who reject Jesus are acting like pagans, and

                    are themselves rejected.

          2) More bearable for Sodom and Gomorrah.                  10:15

              a) These cities, of course, were destroyed by God for

                    their sinfulness.  It was like they were "nuked."

              b) Such is the fate of those who reject Christ.


      D. God expects a response to his message.

          1) We prefer positive approach - I hope they'll respond.

          2) God is sterner - you'd BETTER respond, or else.


III. How much better to receive Jesus.

      A. Receiving apostles is like receiving Jesus.          (see 10:40)

          1) Also, rejecting them is to reject Jesus.

          2) This principle has been abused over the years.

              a) Stories of poor families hosting a grubbing pastor

                    for Sunday dinner.


                 (We were at Pattersons for dinner last week, but

                     that is different, of course!)


      B. How open are we to accepting those who present Jesus?

          1) Suspicious of them and their motives?

          2) Or are you open and hospitable?

              a) I think of this every time a missionary contacts our

                    church.

              b) I cannot accept every one of them - there are so many -

                    but I don't want to be tight-fisted, either.

              c) I always have to ask myself, what if this is Jesus in

                    disguise?  [guilt works wonders]


      C. Destiny stands before us.

          1) Our eternal destiny turns on our relationship to Jesus or

                even to his representatives.

          2) Look past the human vessel to the Savior.


IV. Sometimes the world dumps on us.

      A. Jesus saw the world as a dangerous place.

          1) He was sending them out anyway.

          2) Sheep among wolves.                                    10:16

              a) They could get torn apart if they are not careful.

              b) It was his way of saying that his people were going to

                    get kicked around, bitterly opposed, and probably

                     humiliated.

              c) But that was okay with Him.

                    The learning experiences would be invaluable.

              d) And when they returned, they'd have a serious mind to

                    listen to further teaching.

              e) They would be bursting with questions instead of

                    drowning in cockiness.


      B. Shrewd as snakes, and as innocent as doves.

          1) Christians are often portrayed as gullible waifs.

              a) We believe anything.

              b) We are doormats for the Lord.

          2) Innocence has its place.

              a) Cynicism eats away at the soul.

              b) God still has much good available for us.

              c) Christians should represent this.

          3) Nevertheless, we are not dummies.

              a) Christians understand how evil the world is.

              b) We know this, because we know how evil WE are.


           A seminary professor was once invited by a former student to

              come to his little west Texas town for a revival meeting.

           "While you are here," the pastor said, "I want you to visit

              Mr. Crenshaw.

           He's an older gentleman whom we've never been able to reach

              with the Gospel.

           The fact is, he's such a highly principled man, he probably

              has higher standards than our people, and that's been a

                 hang-up."


           The visiting professor assured the pastor he would be glad

              to talk with anyone he wanted him to.

           The revival started on Sunday morning and that day at least

              four or five people told the professor about Mr. Crenshaw.

           All of them emphasized what high moral values he held.

              Two more people said the same on Monday.


           That afternoon, the pastor decided it was time for the visit.

           Mr. Crenshaw welcomed the pastor and visiting revival

              preacher in his home.

           He graciously offered them glasses of iced tea.

           After some preliminary conversation, the young pastor said,

              "Mr. Crenshaw, I wanted my professor to meet you and to

                  talk with you about the Lord.

               Now, Mr. Crenshaw, I know you are a good man.

               You have high standards and you probably out-live some

                  of the members of our church...."


           Suddenly, the professor said, "Hold it!"

           He looked across the table at his host and said, "You know,

              Crenshaw, ever since I've been in this little town of

                 yours, I've been hearing people telling me what a

                    good man you are.

           And I just want you to know I'm not buying it."

           He paused, leaned forward, and said, "You know, sir, if you

              are a man like I'm a man ... you're as rotten as hell."


           Mr. Crenshaw smiled and said, "You're right.  I am."


           What followed was a serious conversation about a Savior who

              welcomes sinners and has the power to forgive them and

                 make them new persons.

           That day, Mr. Crenshaw came into the Kingdom of God through

              faith in Christ.


           The Bible says, "There is no one good, but God alone."

                                                                   #33221


  V. Some people will want to destroy us.                           10:17

      A. Opposition.

          1) Newsweek article on books by atheists.

              a) They say our religious response to 911 is a mistake.

              b) It is healthier to conclude there is no God.

          2) While many are still religious, support for our views can

                no longer be taken for granted.


      B. Torture.

          1) Christians suffer daily around the world.

          2) In many countries, converting is a death sentence.


      C. Called before authorities.                                10:18

          1) Don't worry about what to say.     10:19

              a) (NOT advice on sermon preparation!)

          2) Spirit will speak through you.     10:20

          3) You'll be witnesses before kings.  10:18


           The Bible gives a historical example of this principle.

           In Acts 26:26-28, Paul has been arrested and is brought before

              King Agrippa.

           Agrippa can free Paul, or send him on to Rome for trial and,

              most likely, execution.


           What would you do in a situation like this?

           Paul preached his heart out, presenting his personal

              story of salvation.

           Then he challenged the king on whether he believed

              what the Bible said.

           (This put Agrippa in a dicey situation - he didn't

               want to offend the Jewish audience.)


           Agrippa's comeback was, "Do you think that in such a

              short time you can persuade me to be a Christian?"


           Paul gave a reply that was clearly Spirit-inspired:

           "Short time or long -- I pray God that not only you but

              all who are listening to me today may become what I am,

                 except for these chains."


      D. God always gets the last word.

          1) On his Judgment Day, what will he say to YOU?



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SOURCES FOR ILLUSTRATIONS USED IN THIS SERMON:


#33219  "Don't Interrupt Our Dinner," by Randy Cassingham, THIS IS TRUE

           internet newsletter, August 27, 2006.


#33216  "The Houseguest From Hell," by "Goodies", Internet, posted

           February 9, 2005.


#33221  "As Rotten As Hell," by Rev. Joe McKeever, Baptist Press,

           http://www.baptistpress.org/, August 3, 2006.


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